wandering lights

i'm a bit resentful that i feel that i make dinner ALL. THE. TIME. at our house, and that i pay for everything. I enjoy making dinner for the two of us, and i enjoy making him happy and full. but tonight i was like, dude, i pay for ALL THIS STUFF and you get to eat it all and i make it all.

so instead of being a bitch or making a mean comment, i just mentioned, "hey next time we go to "insert our grocery store here" could you please buy "this" ? i really like making meals for us but it would be easier financially on me if you would buy this."

and he said " i'm glad you like to cook. i appreciate you cooking and yes, i'll get some of that for you"

that's all it took. instead of an argument.

wish i would have known that earlier.

i love this man more than i could ever love anyone. ever.

did i mention that i made dinner? and because i did, i don't feel bad about him doing all the dishes?

i would TOTALLY rather make dinner than do the dishes.

this man is totally a keeper. and i love him. so much.